One fact I have to point out to all fems and sissies is being a woman requires time, patience, and work. What you achieve depends on how much you are willing to invest in your project. The effort required to be a perfectly put together woman did not end with the fusing of DNA. It is a never-ending process.
We women do not awaken every day magically encased in a beautiful outfit, with complementary accessories, stylish hair, and impeccable makeup. As nice as it would be to have Beauty Fairies come to us just before we awakened, pass a wand over us, and make us ready to take on the world, that has never happened. When it does, you will hear us all squealing in delight and none of us will be rushing out the door, already late!
If you truly want to be the best girl you can be, you will have to do as we all do. You will have to be willing to spend time researching what works for you. You will have to change, as fashion does all the time. You must be willing to take advice from those who have been through this before. I can guide you, advise you, and teach you. If you are not willing to put that information to use, there is nothing more neither I, nor anyone else, can do. If you are ready willing and able to do so, you can make it. When you stare into the mirror and see a beautiful creature before you, you will know all the work was worth it.
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In the two post immediately prior to this one, I gave you insight into what I like outside the world of phone sex domination. You asked. I told.That led me to think about telling you all what I like about the varied fetishes you bring to me each and every day. From those who want to feel their hands gliding up and down their cocks to those who want to feel the same glide, but in their throats. If you want to be my sissy bitch or need a guiding hand on your way to the ultimate transformation into a complete woman, each of you brings me something different.
Ladies, do not think you have been left out. My female slaves are special as well. I can have so much fun with you. You have a unique presence and should never forget that. Watching you slam a dildo into your pussy as you suck a cock or lick another cunt is no less fun than watching my sissy whores take a cock in their sissy pussies.
As I was thinking about this, I thought about what makes every call fun. Why does each fetish amuse me? These thoughts led to what I am going to do.
Over the next several posts, I am going to tell you why I like a mix of calls. Guided masturbation is not the same as feminization, but they are equally entertaining and interesting for me. I am going to dedicate one blog post to each fetish for which I have had calls. Some of these may be more common than others, but that does not mean any are less important to me.
These are not going to be in any order. That means I had better not receive emails asking why I prefer X to Y. I am telling you now that is not the case. If you tell me it is, you will find out that sensual can turn into bitchy very quickly.
Many of you have asked how much I know about sissies and fems and how far I have taken some of them. I am going to answer your queries right now.
I understand what you are thinking and what you are feeling. As a woman, how could I not understand your desire to be beautiful. Women are beautiful creatures. We take pride in our appearance. Why should I feel you should not work towards the same goals.
I have sissies and fems who cover the whole spectrum. There is no correct way to be a fem or sissy. I have sissies who only enjoy dressing occasionally. Some of my fems are pre-op. I have also had the pleasure of guiding fems from discovery of their true inner selves to post operation bliss. The journey does not end with the scalpel and I am standing beside them guiding them through the rest of the journey.
Whether you are exploring the feelings you have or you are someone who has been in the lifestyle for many years, I can help you with your journey. The first thing I must tell you is to lose any apprehension or shame you may feel. There is nothing wrong with the emotions you have.
When you come to me, ask the questions you have. Do not keep anything to yourself because you feel it is odd or embarrassing. Honesty is a requirement. If you do not tell me what you need or ask me what you need to know, I can not guide you properly. The only stupid questions are the ones which go unasked.
My strokers, cuckolds, owned cocks, and other kinky toys, I have special places for you and will be reminding you of why the variety within my subjects is so important to me.
Why must we all feel we should find one category that suits us? I have noticed a trend and I am going to address it right now. I want you to pay attention. If you enjoy stroking and being a panty boy, which one do you choose? Do you say you like guided masturbation? Are you a fem?You like wearing stockings. You are not fond of anything else that is girly. You also like to be forced to suck a cock. Sometimes, you want your wife to make you suck it after she has fucked it. Which category do you fall into?
You wrack your little slave brain, while analyzing which classification suits you. You are a bit of this and a bit of that. You can not decide which group you belong to. I have some advice for you.
STOP!
That’s right. I said FUCKING STOP! Why are you wasting your time trying to find the category that you fit into perfectly? Many people have fetishes that encompass aspects of several categories. Should I be denied your slave time because you are spending time making a decision on exactly which label fits you?
Instead of spending your time inspecting labels, put that time to good use. If you want have a cock sliding down your throat as you stroke yourself, while dressed Little Whore Peep, who the fuck is stopping you? If your licking my boots while your ass is being stretched wide open by a foot long dildo wielded by your girlfriend, who is licking my pussy, is the way you want to be abused and humiliated, do we need to categorize each aspect before we proceed?
When I ask you what your fetish is, you do not have to give me a specific term. Tell me what you want. No two people are the same. Not two words are going to be defined in the same manner by any two individuals.
What you should be doing is serving me and saying,” I want to be your….”
I am going to spend a bit of time discussing some thing with those of you who are in my sissy and feminization training have asked.Now, now. Cucks and strokers, do not be jealous. I will be dedicating a post to you also. Jealousy is not a trait I deal with well, so push it away. If you need help, you can let me know. I know ways to make you see it my way.Now, back to my sissies. You girls are coming along quite well. Some of you were further along than others, but you are all making great strides. I am having a great time training you.
Many of you have asked questions about clothing and makeup again. I am going to address those here now.
Clothing. I suggest choosing pieces you feel comfortable in. I do not mean only physical comfort. If you personality is more shy and reserved than flashy and slut, wearing a see through miniskirt and stilettos on your first foray into cross-dressing. Begin slowly. Choose something you feel you can pull off. There will be plenty of time for me to guide you to the trashy clothing.
Makeup is going to take practice girls. There is no magical wand anyone can wave and make you an expert in five minutes. If there is a magical wand that can do this, there will be a prize for the person who divulges its whereabouts to me!
You must practice. There is no way around that requirement. If you want to become adept and application, you have to do it many times. As you practice, you will find you become more calm and steady handed with each stroke.
Do not take on too much at once. Begin with the basic. Do not attempt to work on contouring and shading if you still can not apply lipstick. The more expert techniques build on the basics, so start there. I CAN NOT STRESS THIS ENOUGH!
That is all for now. Until next time, au revoir!
Hello again cucks, slaves, sissies, fems, and just plain kinky ones. There are several changes of which you should be made aware.
The first change is my schedule. Take a look at it and make sure you check it frequently. Beginning September first, you will find there are two schedules that will be most frequent. Do not worry, you will have your chance to spend some quality time with me.
Many are asking about the rewards, better known as the locked pages. As I stated before, you have to complete all requirements to gain entry to them. You can not have a permanent password to the locked pages. If you want to maintain your access, you will have to complete the requirements of that time frame. I will not make any exceptions.
On September first, the requirements will be changing. Do stay tuned to find out what those are. Everything will be explained, including the how long you will have access to the page(s). I will explain all of this to you in a coming post.
Before that time, there are some points that need to be clarified now. When you have earned access to a page, you may not ask me to give you a different one. Know what you want and ask for that password. That is a lame attempt to access multiple pages and it will not happen.
No, I am not going to create a special page for individuals. I understand each of you would like to have certain things on a page, but that is not practical. If you would like a page that caters to your specific whims and desires, contact me and we will discuss it. You will have to earn that privilege just like any other, so do keep that in mind.
I have slaves to attend to. Ta ta slaves!
Hello girls. Some of you have sent me very good questions. I told you I would answer.Now, cucks, strokers, and cocksuckers, do not get jealous. You will get your turn also. Be patient.
What makeup do you suggest?
This question is not as easily answered as one would think. Each of us has different skin and must find a line that does not irritate it. Price is not a factor. Just because a product costs eighty dollars does not mean it will not make you break out, or worse, cause a rash. Quality can also be found in cheaper brands too.The best mascara I have ever used is less than five dollars. One of the most amazing eyeliners available is going to set you back one dollar. A great foundation for beginners can be found at many retail stores for five to eight dollars. If you are just learning the process, start inexpensively. Most of the makeup is going to end up washed away due to a mistake. This is a fact of makeup life.
Nylons, thigh highs, or garters?
This is totally based on what you are comfortable in and what you are wearing. As a personal preference, garters are my pick. Are they practical at all times? No. Are they sensual and able to make you feel like a sex goddess? Defiitely?
Hair Removal: What do I use?
This is going to be decided by what you prefer. If you have no tolerance for pain, waxing is probably not for you. Depilatories are a sound option. They do not leave stubble as a razor does.If you choose to use a razor, purchase a high end brand.
Any more questions?
What would the typical day be? No two days are alike. Every day I see something new.Speaking of this, let me relate a few things i have encountered. Everyone enjoys a good laugh once in a while and these situations elicited laughs from me.One situation which is on going is someone who is constantly contacting me for all types of calls. He has explained to me that he needs cock control, cuckolding, and forced bi training. When I type explain, I do not mean the occasional instant message or email. I am telling you about instant messages that come from numerous screen names and emails that go on and on.I am sure you are wondering why someone who enjoys communication would find this amusing. Here is the answer: In exchange for my “generously assisting him” pro bono of course, he will make sure my karma is rewarded. He has suggested other methods of barter, such as showing me how to write off his training on taxes as charity. Right!
I truly believed when this began someone was playing a prank. After several weeks, and many instant ignores, I have to wonder if he is serious. Being forced to suck cock as charity? I will avoid that. How do you explain this when asked,”What charity did you give this to? Was the donation in cash or the form of items.” If anyone wants to share a funny response, feel free.
Second, if you contact a Mistress and ask her is she is interested in a fantasy and she explains there are certain aspects of it she does not deal with, do not take this personally. Every person is different. You may have had a Mistress enjoy it, but everyone has different preferences. If you work out a role-play and agree upon it, go with it. Adding the agreed upon edits during the session is disrespectful to the Mistress. Be open with me about what you want.
Now, get the phone ready and come all cucks, sissy sluts, strokers, fems, and others. If you wonder if I am willing to share a certain fantasy with you, feel free to email me. Asking never hurts.
You know I enjoy guiding your jacking, cuckolding you, and reminding you just how much of a worthless bitch you are. Why does it seem sissies do not believe I have fun with them?My sissies are very happy. The rules to play with me are very simple. You must be open minded and you must follow instructions. Many of my sissies are sending their “sisters” to me.
For those who have wondered if I accept fems and sissies, you now have your answer. When you are my sissy, we will definitely have fun. I enjoy shopping, makeup, fashion, and shoes. Shoes are a weakness, so if you like them, we will have much to talk about. Think of it as being a big slumber party for all the girls to have fun!
There is no level of sissy that you must be to enter my training. Whether you enjoy the feel of lipstick occasionally or are becoming totally feminine, which is more feminization, there is something for you here. The girls in the group are very open-minded, just as I am.
Another subject I must touch upon is embarrassment. When you come to me, do not be ashamed. It should be quite obvious that i am not here to judge you. If we are both to have a good time, we need to discuss what you really think, feel, and want. If you can not tell me everything truthfully, having fun is going to become more difficult, isn’t it?
So, let down your defenses. Come to me and let me help you find your feminine side, regardless of how deeply you have have hidden it. The search is half the fun!
Domination and submission are seen in many ways. One way, which I find to be very important to a good session, is opening your mind to the possibilities. If you enter with a closed mind, how can you enjoy the fun.When you come into my world, understand the mind is very powerful. If you being with a good attitude, thinking you are going to have fun, you will find that you are relaxed and you will leave with a smile. If you have the mindset that you are going to fight and you will not have fun, what can anyone do to change the end result? You are basically telling yourself you are going to make sure you have a bad time.
My sissies have grown to look forward to turning themselves over to me. Apprehension is going to be a part of any unknown, but that does not have to influence your thinking. All sex, including phone sex, is more mind controlled than some realize. Pleasure, pain, ecstasy, etc are all processed in the brain. If you close it off, how can any feeling wash over you?
Do not be afraid. I am going to get to know you. You are going to get to know me. When you are able to allow yourself to relax and trust that you are putting yourself into good hands. My slaves, locked cocks, panty boys, crossdressers, worthless pigs, cock lickers, dick strokers and cucks have all grown to understand that I know best.
Come with an open mind and you will find your imagination can take you higher than you ever thought possible.
