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The first few days of the new year have flown by. Not that I’m complaining, really, lol. I’ve done such a huge variety of femdom phone sex calls, I’m hard pressed to pick my favorites. I know all you wanker boys enjoy hearing about the wicked things my imagination conjures and how excited my boys get when they know they aren’t the only onces suffering for my amusement.

Forced bi phone sex, one of my favorites, has been quite popular with loads of sissy sluts yearning to learn their true place on their knees servicing superior males. One of those sluts, Melissa, has begged me numerous times to mention her here. Melissa loves to be dressed like a nasty little whore and taken out to gloryholes for some deliciously forced bi cocksucking. Not that Melissa needs force, the moment she sees a thick, bulging prick, she turns into a cockgobbling bitch, with her skirt flipped high and her asspussy filled to the brim. I do so enjoy our calls as she’s so eager to please both her masters and mistresses.

On to cuckolding, I’ve heard from so many inadequate men who understand their hotwife’s desire for big, black cock. Some of them even seek out the black masters to make their wives happy and are quite cheerful about cleaning up those sloppy seconds. I just love hearing how the inadequate cuckold husband sucked up that creamepie, then sucked her huge lover hard again for round two… or three. Cuckold husbands that know their place in the world are the most delightful callers of all.

Indulging my love for hardcore female domination is always a wonderful thing as well. As you know, I love cock and ball torture, objectification, degradation and the like. Total power exchange phone sex makes me wet, knowing the slave in question desires his subjugation just as much as I do. I love control… and you love giving it up… Aren’t we a match made in heaven? Or quite possibly hell, depending on our mutual desires of course.

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

Hello to all you compulsive masturbators… just going to share a bit today. You all know how much I enjoy tease and denial phone sex, so finding W was such treat! W is such a good little boy toy, always obedient and respectful, never questioning my plans or why I’m denying him. W knows who’s in charge and grateful to give up control to his beautiful femdom Mistress. So when I told him he wouldn’t be cumming for a while, he was skeptical at first, never thinking he’d have the control to wait it out. I’m so very proud of him, though… he held out 18 whole days!

When training a boy for strict orgasm denial, it’s hard to know when he’s finally ready for the token release. While cutting off their cummies completely is certainly intriguing, I find it’s only useful in cases where the boy in question has abstained from orgasm for extended periods in the past. When dealing with a novice, the best course of action seems to be periodic draining that reinforces the delightful feeling of denial. Not only that, it gives the submissive slut a reward for denying himself. It gives him a goal, something to strive for… after all, when all hope is lost, what’s the point?

When we began, W would edge several times a day, coming to the edge quickly by stroking himself and using various means including nipple torment, mild cock and ball torture and his butt plug to enhance the sensations… and of course the panties I made him go to Victoria’s Secret to purchase. He’d been over wearing a pair of Walmart specials and complaining of how they were wearing out, lol. In those days, he would pm me several times per day begging for release. Of course I told the little slut know, waiting for that feeling of quiet desperation to hit him. He even had sex with his wife without orgasming because I ordered him to either not cum or if he did, eat her creampie. As his wife was sort of prudish, he opted for coitus interruptus. He gave her an orgasm and denied himself, I was so proud of his control.

Yesterday, it did. He told me he’d been having a harder time reaching the edge and that he felt so full. I decided it was time to milk him dry. Orgasm denial had put W in a wonderful state of submission where he was totally open for suggestion and so obedient he’s stopped questioning my methods at all. He was willing at that moment to do absolutely anything I wanted, no matter if it resulted in an orgasm for himself or not. He admitted I had every single bit of sexual control over him and that was just how he liked it.

So when he called, there was some small talk of course, but I quickly turned to his sore, aching nipples and made him touch them sensually. We’d been tormenting them with clamps, a toothbrush and hard pinches… not to mention a bit of abrasion play for all that time. Now I made him touch them like a lover. I could hear him panting and whimpering at the gentle touch. Wearing his cockring and sliding in his buttplug, I encouraged him to wrap his shaft and balls in a pair of soft nylons and to apply some icy hot. I could hear the arousal in his voice and knew he’d be denied no longer.

From the start, he was begging, but I kept him hanging on the edge to the very end. I told him to take out his butt plug and to insert his rabbit vibrator. His breath came in shallow bursts and he begged me, “please, PLEASE!”… and I told him, do it. W orgasmed into a waiting shot glass and drank his cum down for me like the greedy slut he is. He told me he’d never done that before, but was glad he’d saved the honor for me… makes a Mistress feel good, it does, lol.

Immediately after our call, W pm’d me telling me how greatful he was and how he was looking forward to his next cycle of orgasm denial training. For the next two days, he’s been ordered not to touch himself. I want the feeling of horniess to reboot before we start his edging games again. I think it’s getting to him already, he’s begging for an assignment today, lol. I can’t wait to see how long I can make him wait there on the edge before his inevitable release becomes a reality! I’ve told him his next cycle will be 22 days… think he can make it that long? Do you think you could?

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

Hello stroker boys! As many of you know, I’m a very adventurous fem dom mistress who enjoys any and all tools I can add to my arsenal of pleasure/pain. I’ve long been an advocate of bdsm implements on the cheap, meaning of course things you can find inside your house… or even your own backyard. One of those tools is the nasty little plant called the stinging nettle. Before we begin on the history and usage, I’ll give the usual safety warnings. It’s always a good idea to do a spot test on your wrist before you take it, uhm… downstairs, lol. Make sure you aren’t allergic… and that you have the actual plant, urtica diocia. There are several different types found in all parts of the world including Europe, North America and Asia. Good to go? Then let’s begin exploring what could be a very unique bdsm phone sex experience.

Ancient literature from Roman times mentions this plant in bdsm usage with mentions of unruly soldiers being punished “below the navel” with stinging nettles. The English used it to encourage prized bulls to mate… and of course, those deliciously inventive Victorians used it for the same purpose we’ll be using it… to torture the cock and balls of submissives both in punishment and play. Urtication, along with “birching” and ginger figging, were common forms of torment during the Victorian era. For those who think our ancestors were sticks in the mud, just think of the kinky legacy they’ve left us!

You can identify this plant easily by it’s toothy, serrated edges of it’s leaves. They grow in groupings of two, back to back against their stem. The backs of the leaves themselves are covered with fine, sticky white hairs which make up the stinging part. The best time to gather stinging nettles is in the spring, so you have plenty of time to research and hunt some down. You should use rubber gloves when gathering your treasures as to avoid irritation to areas that aren’t quite as fun as your genitals. No use wasting your fun sexual humiliation tool with stinging hands!

Those tiny white hairs on the backs of the leaves act as tiny needles that when pressed and rolled against sensitive flesh will cause irritation. You should carefully apply it with gloved hands. I’ve used these delightfully torturous leaves in the underwear of submissives so they can feel the burn for extended periods. I’ve also used them before a nice, hard spanking or caning. Used in conjunction with a ginger fig before a caning can be a quite interesting bdsm experience for advanced submissive males.

In the next few days I’ll be posting an audio story featuring stinging nettles as part of a cock and ball torture scene including some deliciously nasty punishments and pleasures. Stay tuned for a link… and while you wait, entertain yourself with my blog and audios… well, if you haven’t already. As always, I’m eager to consult you on your bdsm regieme. I’m sure you’re as excited to explore new and exciting ways to humiliate yourself for my pleasure… and yours, of course.

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

Hi there stroker sluts! This week has been a mixed bag of calls ranging from hotwife cuckolding and cock and ball torture to guided masturbation and extreme tease and denial… but by far, the majority of phone sex calls have been something very near and dear to my heart. But then all you compulsive masturbators know just how much I enjoy the fine art of small cock humiliation. I’ve made so much fun of the micro weenies my throat is sore from laughing so much!

Of course there were many forgettable teenie weeines… but the first memorable one was micropenis boy. He’s so small that his penis looks like a button! It’s the smallest I’ve ever seen, seriously… Well, it had been a while since he’d called and I’d missed poking fun at the smallest dicklet in the world. He asked me over and over if it was truly worthless and I answered in the affirmative. It’s the most worthless little thing I’ve ever seen! We also discussed the benefits of castration. I told him he’d end up either end up a eunuch or a cocksucking panty faggot… he decided he’d rather be dickless… but surprise, he already is, lol!

Then there was the cuckold who admitted his wife had been a virgin on their wedding night and still knew instinctively it was far smaller than other men. She was a virgin, dude, not an idiot. In this day and age of internet porn, it was niave of you to think she wouldn’t know you were a pindick… now she knows you’re a moron as well. He said she hadn’t had sex with him since that first night and had been spending lots of time with a guy from work. He asked me if I knew why she had cut him off… I told him to get used to being her cuckold bitch… because a large cock was in her future… and his little one would be left sad and lonely for years to come. I know that turned him on because he spooged quickly. Too bad that’s not his largest problem, lol.

Stay tuned for more reports from stroker boys who want me to listen and tell. Remember I only report it on my blog if I know my boy enjoys the public humiliation. I’m all about keeping secrets and I’m not the type to reveal all your dirty little secrets to the world… unless I know you’ll get off on it as much as I do.

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

I’ve been focusing a lot on expensive, kinky toys, but I realize that many of you are on a cock and ball torture budget… hell you have to be to afford my very personal phone domination services, lol. So I’m going to give you some secret frugal tips so we might enjoy very special, sadistic sessions. It’s amazing the things you can get at Wal-Mart or your local hardware. I’m sure you know some tricks like paint stirrers for paddles, both the thin, springy kind and the thicker, more harsh version you can pick up at Lowe’s… but of course they bare repeating. As do binder clamps from the office supply and clothespins from the laundry session. Also there’s loads of fun to be had with soy based candles, wooden spoons and even the strings from your shoes.

But the kitchen section, a place most men avoid, has a treasure trove of cock and ball torture implements to satisfy even the most discerning phone sex masochists. I believe I’ve mentioned meat tenderizers before, the spiky mallet head is perfect for ballbusting fun. And ginger root causes a very submissive, pleasure/pain sensation when used on your genitals or anally. Cream of Tartar also causes a very nice itch, but don’t use too much. Lemon squeezers are fun, I’m sure you know where I’d apply them, lol… along with nutcrackers. Bamboo skewers, chopsticks, chip clips for bags… all these things can be used my an inventive dominatrix like myself to force such beautiful suffering.

Abrasion play is also a passion of mine. I’ve taken strips of sandpaper, fine grit of course, and placed it in bras I’ve made sissy sluts wear. They tell me it rubs their nipples raw gradually over the course of the day inciting feelings of submissive male stroker lust and devotion each time the paper shifts over their hardened buds. Sandpaper rubbed gently on the balls also elicits a delicious response.

More to come of course… I’m sure that’s enough excitement for you little painsluts today… But if not, you can always call me. I do so enjoy hearing and watching your charming physical and mental reactions to the pain I entice you to inflict on my behalf.

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

With Christmas just around the corner, all I’ve heard for the last bit has been, “What do you want for Christmas?”. While I can’t offend friends and family with my kinky wishlist, I can entertain my submissive males with a list of toys that make my panties wet. This isn’t my wishlist for me, mind you, it’s a wishlist of things I’d love to see you boys buy so our playtime together is a bit edgier, spicier and of course fun! So here goes… enjoy…

For CBT Enthusiasts

This is an evil little device known as Kali’s Teeth… and this one is only the beginner’s version! I have one delightful subbie who’s an inventor who’s developed his own version out of plastic. This little toy will spike your clitty when it gets the least bit hard. It’s such a delicious torment to watch a submissive male fight his nature and stay soft and pliant to avoid the pain. Of course, painsluts love Kali’s Teeth for other reasons entirely, lol. So if you’re looking for a chastity device that provides not only abstinence but pain, this is the way to go!

For Orgasmic Control

For the boy with cock control issues… this little Sperm Stopper will keep you from going volcanic no matter how much you’d like to. While using this little device on some of my personal slaves, I get begging, pleading, bargaining and on my part…. much, much laughter.  Once this little fucker’s in place, there’s no cummies for you. This is the perfect playtime toy for the tease and denial junkie… no way, no how is it coming through the plug. No cummies for the wicked… that’s you, lol.

I’ll be adding more to my kinky wishlist for submissives in the weeks leading up to the holidays, so stay tuned for more kinky fun… and if you want to purchase something for me, your favorite humiliatrix… Check out my Amazon wishlist or just buy me an E-Gift card from Agent Provocoteur or Lucky Brand, my two favorite stores. The links for each are in my sidebar as well as my email address. Or if you’re just feeling submissive or if you’re into financial domination, well, spend, spend, spend…

I hope you had a wonderful holiday and weekend… I know I have….

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

Most people equate BDSM sex with kinky sexual practices they aren’t really sure about… they just KNOW that no decent person would do it… well, except their neighbors, their kid’s school teacher, that nice lady who sells cookies at church bake sales, etc. The fact is, most vanilla flavored people have no idea about BDSM at all. They think whips and chains, some guy on Jerry Springer being lead around like a dog by a dominatrix wannabe, scarred and bleeding backs from the kiss of a whip and a million and one other incorrect cliches. Truth is, with the turn of the century, many, young and old have thrown off the shackles of stereotypical bdsm play and made up their own rules.

The B part stands for bondage, obviously. Though not every practitioner likes to be tied up, there’s a certain eroticism about it. The feeling of being helpless, exposed, immobile… well it gives some the feeling their body is not their own, but belongs instead to their Master or Mistress. While vanilla people might scoff at the idea a submissive would find empowerment in bondage, I say don’t knock it until you try it. Not every bdsm game ends in pain. Bondage is the perfect tease and denial tool, driving the willing victim crazy with longing. Trust plays a big part in this type of scene as you don’t exactly let strangers bind you. Not only that, but being the lone nude man in a room full of clothed women is enough to excite men who have the barest of CFNM fantasies!

D stands for discipline, what squicks many. Discipline can be anything from a harsh word, a quick correction, light paddling or full on flogging. The implements used are many and varied, just look around your house. Wooden spatulas, paint stirrers, binder clamps, hell, a creative disciplinarian can walk in a hardware store and purchase things to torture some lucky soul all night! But don’t worry, the beauty of bdsm is both parties are extremely willing. Not only that, but tease and denial play a huge part as well, the anticiapation of the pleasure/pain often outweighs the orgasm itself!

Which brings me to the S & M part. S stands for Sadism, named for the eighteenth century libertine, the Marquis De Sade. Though he had a wild reputation, most of it well deserved, many of his bdsm themed books were thinly veiled political satire of his day. Sadism is sexual pleasure obtained from the suffering of others. If one is playing with a masochist, this can be an extremely rewarding experience…

Now on to the M, masochism. Masochism is taking delight and sexual pleasure in pain. It can be spanking, whipping, nipple torture, cbt, mind fuckery and the list goes on and on. What sets the masochist apart is his/her love for the endorphins released at the peak of pain/ pleasure. The term was coined in the nineteenth century by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch who wrote the brilliant Venus in Furs.

Point is, explore the whys and the hows of your sexuality. Research, find the triggers that arouse you. Educate yourself rather than just expecting generic bdsm domination games. Trust me, you’ll be glad you took the time to do so.

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
1.99/minute with a 10 minute minimum
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

I’m quite a believer in contrasts, hence my fascination with pain and pleasure. Ask any painslut and they’ll tell you they’re one and the same. When the endorphins start flooding your system, pain makes the pleasure of your submission so very intense, more intense than a mere blowjob or vanilla roll in the hay. True, those activities activate the pleasure centers of your brain, but not to the degree even a little pain will add. Anyone who’s ever been the least bit involved in bdsm phone sex knows this. Sometimes the pain overwhelms your pleasure centers and leaves you panting and writhing with lust, more excited, more orgasmic than you’ve ever been… not from the pleasure, but from the sweet rush of pain that you feel all over.

Is it any wonder I just adore cbt phone sex? There’s something so very hot about controlling the pace of pain a boy feels under my cruel control. I love to taunt and tease while he clamps those clothespins on his nuts and nipples. I love the sweet way they beg when blood flow overwhelms their cock bondage and the ties become uncomfortably erotic and that man meat swells and bucks in anticipation for what’s coming next. It’s even better when I make him spread his legs wide and I trample his balls or kick them hard. Ballbusting is a hobby of mine, lol. Not only do I enjoy this special brand of pain, but the erotic humiliation it provides the male submissive. Out of control, out of options and loving every single second.

Another of my favorite fantasies involves castration. I have no clue why… maybe because as a farm girl I witnessed the annual ritual of gelding horses and castrating pigs. My father taught me how to use an elastrator when I was young and I assisted occasionally in emasculating the hogs or bulls. It was so very much fun. As I got older, I wondered often how it would work on a man. Cutting off the blood flow makes the testicles atrophy, so easy to slice after with little pain. Of course, cauterization often left those partially male animals squeal. These kinky niche fetishes excite me, the more extreme the better. How would it make you feel?

But anyway, enough to scare you boys, lol. Let’s face it, I’m a true sadistic mistress who enjoys male suffering in whatever form it takes. Does that excite you, repulse you or just make you crave my voice on the line wondering what I’d do to you to make you ache with that same pleasure pain. No apologies, that’s just me… and you know you love me, lol, in spite of or because of the sadism that drives me to become the most sadistic fem dom you’ve ever had the pleasure to submit to. Are you game? I know I am…

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

 

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Some of you are under the false impression that I’m soft and sensual merely because I’m blond, sultry, sexy and polite. For those who’ve played with me, however, you understand my real love is rough trade. Give me implements to inflict pain and it makes me smile. Beg me to watch and direct your CBT phone sex session… and follow all my orders no matter how painful or degrading. Look up at me with pleading eyes while I contemplate how hard to bust your balls with my thigh high leather boots… you know, the wicked ones with six inch heels that beg to be licked by a submissive slave boy like you? These are just a few of my favorite things.

And another thing… when it comes to sissy boys? I prefer my boys eager for cock, whether it be my strap on or forced bi humiliation. Give me a sissy with smeared cocksucker red lipstick and mascara running down ruining “her” perfect makeover. Give me a slut who’s stretched her “pussy” to take a plug or cock easily. Give me a dirty panty fag gloryhole whore who kneels in sticky jism to suck all cummers. I’m not fond of sissy lesbos, though. If I want to get sensual with a girl, well, it’ll be a real girl, not some hairy pseudo-wannabe. In other words, I prefer my sissies useful and active in their sexual pursuits… not some dress up dollie who wants me to tell him how pretty he is… let’s face it, you’re not. You’re a filthy, slutty cumslut who needs to be filled with cock.

So what does that mean for us? Well, it’s simple really. I still enjoy all kinds of roleplays, all kinds of filthy fantasies from cuckold phone sex, hardcore domination, fetish exploration and of course, extreme humiliation including public, private and small cock humiliation. And of course I love forced bisexuality and using my strapon cock on a willing panty fag who begs his lovely mistress to fuck him hard in his sissy hole. But I’m not sensual, despite my soft, taunting voice, despite my knowing smile… all these things I cultivate to dig deep into your psyche and find the darkest place I can… and take you there… and make sure you damn well love it.

That’s who I am. That’s what I do. I’m the smiling bitch goddess who tempts and taunts you to sin… and never, ever lets you forget you begged me for it. Think of that when you’re skating on the edge of agony and ecstasy. Trust me, you’ll love me all the more for it.

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
1.99/minute with a 10 minute minimum
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

 

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I’m always asked what I enjoy most about sexual domination. I always answer the same way, the total and complete sense of control I have over the situation. While I respect the submissive’s limits, I feel it’s my duty to push just a little further. Why, you ask? Because I am the Mistress and I can. Don’t even try and pretend you don’t enjoy the fine art of fem dom phone sex. But in a casual mistress/slave relationship, enforcing such edicts and commands becomes a bit dodgy. You must rely on the dedication of a slut that most likely just wants to get off.

But pushing a little more you reveal a desire on the part of some male submissives for total power exchange. What does TPE phone sex mean? It means you place your entire sexuality in the hands of a strong woman who will take complete sexual control of you. It means no more orgasms without permission and the sweet sound of her laughter as she whispers “Orgasm denied!”. It means anal training, cocksucker training and lots of forced bi humiliation. Why? Because I say so and you need every wall, every semblance of your life before your bdsm experience to disappear beneath the weight of your own limits.

See, I understand there’s a lot of guilt and shame involved as you reveal your fetishes and desires. When placed in a TPE environment with the right fem dom Mistress guiding your slave training, you have a chance to become clay in someone else’s hand. No more guilt, no more shame because you never made the decision to do anything but put yourself completely in her sexual control. Without those limits inside your head you find yourself to completely enjoy the many facets of your sexual personality for the first time ever. What a rush….

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com