Archive for the “Ruined Orgasms” Category

I have a very good friend who is infamous for being an extreme cocktease. It’s not that she won’t put out, she will… just not to men who are desperate enough to try to buy her. I often watch in awe as she manipulates these horny men right where she wants them. They gamble if they wine and dine her enough, eventually she’ll put out. So she allows it to a point, free dinners, vacations, jewelry and other prizes… things that can’t be mistaken for a down payment on pussy. She’d be mortified if they suggested giving her cash or paying her bills… it’s just life’s little luxuries she expects and she’s given. My friend would be really good at tease and denial phone sex, lol.

Me? I prefer there be no illusions. I enjoy being paid for teasing and denying you. Why pretend otherwise? I have no interest in spending my time being wooed by a beta male. I prefer to keep you home in chastity while I entertain an alpha male at your expense. It excites me to think I have that complete control of your cock, your mind and of course… control of your orgasm. I understand that while you’re denied and controlled, you are mine. You completely sexualize me, yet you’d never think for an instant I’d bed you. You understand a woman like me would never be satisfied by a pathetic beta bitch boy… so why even give you the impression you have a chance at all?

So what do you think? Would you rather be played by a cocktease or a dominant bitch who understands exactly what she expects from you… and what you’ll get (and not be getting)?

So

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So what’s the appeal of orgasm control? Some believe the release of such vital fluids interrupts the creativity and life force of the male gender. With each orgasm, the male of the species loses some vital spark that could be channeled for something higher, something greater… but we both know you desire to cum… eventually. Tonight, I’ve been speaking with such a boy… I love to tease him to the edge over and over, then pull him back completely. Have I mentioned lately I can be quite the wicked cocktease, lol? Of course many of you stroker sluts already knew that having been thoroughly teased and denied by me. What did you expect? For me to make it easy?

No, when we talk I’m in complete control of your orgasmic destiny. I’ll be the judge as to whether you’re ready for complete satisfaction. I want you panting and aching and hungry for it, begging at my feet, promising me the world if you could just “let a little out”. When you hear my laugh, it’s the first indication I’m serious about limiting your pleasure. Our phone sex calls will keep you on the edge. That’s an expectation I won’t negotiate. If you want to cum, tell me. Otherwise, I’ll keep you hanging and wanting until you call me to sing for your semen yet again.

What makes me such a sadistic tease to the cock control crowd? I realize that keeping you hard keeps you interested. It keeps you throbbing and putty in my hand. When I control your orgasm, I control you, control your world and you’ll love the yeses all the more when you understand exactly why I tell you no. Are you looking for tease and denial phone sex tonight? Give me a call then, I’m ready to make you wait… don’t disappoint me.

Empress Lauren
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 Cocksucker Training, Cockmockery and Forced Bi [4:35m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

I know most boys would much rather act all homophobic or like a real tool if someone even dared to suggest they were a sissy fag. After all, alpha male ride their masculinity to the top of their career, top of their game and most of all, in their many conquests of women who thought they knew better. However, will the influx of flaming gays in the US, it gets harder for closet queers to keep their true desires and inclinations from bleeding over into the lives they work strenuously to hide from straight people.

First of all, homosexuality, bisexuality… and even forced bi humiliation cloud some issues. Even that whole “I’ll fuck anything, I’m just horny!” slut who is equally attracted to both sexes confuses the general public and sometimes convinces ordinary system that not all gay men are really gay. So in this confusing back drop, the question remains. What’s the common ground that draws those in support of the gay community? That’s simple really. While the closet queens try desperately to hide their culture from a disillusioned and judgemental world. So what’s a boy with deviant desires to do when he finds himself hard and horny for someone with the same equipment? He hides from himself and finds a strong woman to love… and he does his best to facilitate a slow seduction, non threatening and romantic enough to keep her spellbound.

And honestly, why would this man try to escape? Most times he wouldn’t. So when the couple begins discussing the things they missed most… they both understood that despite his unorthodox lifestyle, she still loves him deeply. So she trains him to service the very same men she enjoys… and not only that, serve as their fluffer boy, his purpose to harden the throbbing pricks eager for his beautiful wife’s pussy. While jealously crossed his mind, that every now and then glace from his wife showed him she understood… and would do nothing to jeopardize their perfect relationship. And if he’s lucky? He might even get a cream pie the cuckold has left inside his hot wife’s cunt. The cuckold husband, or the archaic wittol husband is held in contempt, even now. I’m sure his embarrassment leads into that vicious circle of binging his desires.

So what’s my point? I suppose it’s an encouragement to stop stay calm, relax, enjoy yourself and put aside petty difficulties and realize both you and your spouse need variety, it’s the spice of life after all! A cuckold relationship is a beautiful thing for like minded spouses. Clear boundaries prevent many misunderstandings in cuckold relationships . It obviously stokes the home fires, keeping monotony from destroying a strong relationship. Communication between couples with open marriages is free flowing and non-judgemental. To the contrary, these couples understand that rather than extramarital activities pulling them apart, they add a deeper level of trust, understanding and acceptance in the relationship.

What’s that go to do with Cocksucker Training? Most little fag sluts need it due to their limited experiences. I’m excited at teaching such eager boys to please the female… and male… population immensely. So enjoy my blog today. I’ve added some more hot pics of me on my gallery page. Goodnight now and sweet dreams.

Empress Lauren
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 Iron Fist, Velvet Glove [3:13m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

One of the things I hear from potential callers and phone sex callers alike is, “You looks so soft and sweet, I can’t imagine you being mean enough.” Well, love… not every fem dom is a hardcore, leather wearing, whip wielding bitch from hell. Some of us are iron fists in velvet gloves. I listen for not on the the things you say, but the things you don’t. I draw you in with softness, seduction… well placed questions that you answer in the heat of your lust. Then I note it inside my head, those triggers that I can later push, ripping your safety net out from under you. After all, I’m merely soft and seductive. I never beat you or punish you with anything but gentle mockery and ridicule. I never make you tell me things, I only ask and lead you down the road I’d like for you to travel with me. I tempt you with the thought of cleansing yourself through confession, never dreaming that by the very act of talking about your darkest desires, you’re opening your sexual awareness to them even wider.

That’s when I touch you. At first my hand feels soft, of course, it’s what you’re expecting. Then I whisper in your ear some totally shocking thing, some request and since I’m stroking you, arousing you… of course you’ll agree. That’s when I start using those erotic confessions against you. I suggest whispered fantasies, things you crave inside your head… things you couldn’t possibly do for real. And you do them for me, only for me. The stakes rise with each consequent request. At first it’s eating your cum for me, then dressing in the panties, then the strap on assplay I require from you. It all seems so fun at first, then you realize I’m leading you deeper and deeper into my world. In my world, you belong to me, your cock, your heart and your semen… and then I start controlling even that.

I begin by limiting your orgasms, though not your masturbation, encouraging you to stroke to the edge for me numerous times a day. Then one day, I take your orgasm away completely. It’s time for your splooge, you’ve been waiting patiently and it makes the blueball ache of your orgasm denial even worse. I don’t lock you away then, though I should… is that the next step in this “soft” fem dom’s plan to own you completely? And you thought I couldn’t do it…

Empress Lauren
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Yayyy! I’m the featured Mistress today at our wonderful site Domination Bootcamp! I just wanted to share my fun little “strokercise” with those of you unfamiliar with this extra special blog designed with the submissive male in mind. Every few days one of the Lovely LDW Mistresses posts an extra special set of instructions for stroker boys like you to enjoy, hence the term “strokercises”. Of course it’s a cockteaser, to show you what you’re missing if you haven’t called yet… or to remind you exactly why your cock demands you call us again and again! So here’s a link to my “strokercise” in figging phone sex. Don’t worry, the post explains it all… and if you want to talk about it after or share an erotic phone sex experience with me… I’ll be more than happy to help you out with that…

Empress Lauren
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You want me don’t you? How could you not when I’m dressed so scantily? I have on a cute red negligee, so sheer you can see my nipples. The transparent material shows off my tan belly and hints of the tiny red thong I have on beneath. While far from the sterotypical femdom uniform, it suits my purpose tonight… teasing you to distraction, then denying you final release.

I slide up against you allowing you to inhale my scent. Pheremones are my friend, they are primal and strike you deep in your pants where it counts. As I slowly touch you and cocktease you, your body responds as any healthy male’s should. You rise to the occasion, aching and begging to me to please… just touch it a little…

Why don’t you touch it a little? Take it out for me, let me see what you’ve got. Go ahead. Kneel down before me and stroke it, harder. Bring it to the edge in fact… but don’t you dare orgasm, this is a lesson in building the pleasure. You’re there and begging again, this time for release. I make you let go and calm yourself before we start again… I could do this all night, you know? Teasing you, allowing you to touch, making you crave…. but the last words I whisper to you are always the same…

“Orgasm Denied!”

Better luck next time when playing tease and denial games with a woman, face it… you need it more than we do and it’s so very amusing to tell you no and mean it.

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
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This week has been exciting for me. Not only have I partied with old, dear friends…. I’ve taken some rather awesome calls that strike me where I like it most, my funny bone. Now the truth is, while I’m aroused sometimes by my calls, for the most part they appeal to my very sick and twisted sense of sexual humor. Let me detail the most memorable of the phone sex humiliation calls from the past few days.

There was poor S who wanted someone “mean”. My style of mean doesn’t involve yelling and screaming, it’s more taunting and teasing, usually in a soft & sarcastic giggly tone that has been known to make grown men cry. S was one such subject. I tortured him sweetly, my tone contrasting nicely with the pain I encouraged him to inflict on his miniature member. Cock and ball torture is always so exciting, listening to the moans of pain and pleasure a willing submissive subjects himself to at my behest. All the while I’m torturing his aching blueballs (he hadn’t came in two weeks), I’m assuring him he’ll get an orgasm. He spends his session begging, worshiping and aching to cum. True to my word, I encouraged him to stroke and stroke hard, just let me know when he’s reached the point of no return. He was a panting mess when he got there and begged to splooge. So I let him… with one condition. I ruined his orgasm for him by forcing to thumb it so all the cum drained back inside. Needless to say he was satisfied… but he wasn’t, lol. Oh the contradictions of female domination!

Then there was an awesome small cock humiliation roleplay. The caller is winning big at the casino, that is until my boyfriend and I show up. I snuggle up to the caller, feel him up a little and whisper in his ear how much smaller his junk is than my hung stud of a lover. It instantly ruins his concentration until he loses his ass. I give him a chance to recoup his losses if he’ll come back to our room with us… and offer him back his lost cash if I can make a eunuch of him. Of course he watches my stud fuck me well, cleans me up and is offered one last orgasm before I take out the elastrator. I’m sure you can figure out how that one ended, lol!

Then sweet W of the monotone voice calls. I do so enjoy speaking with him. While I think some callers resent the power women hold over them, Warren seems genuinely enamoured of the fairer sex… so much so he understands instinctively he’s beneath us. He’s not a small man, not a loser… only a stroker because he knows what most men only suspect, he doesn’t deserve pussy. He’s not worthy and chronic masturbation is his lot in life. Kudos to Warren for being the good, respectful boy he is. He’s always a pleasure.

Then today, I get the treat of treats. One of my regulars, G, has been dying to have his prostate milked. After showing me pics of his first interracial cocksucking experience, I had the pleasure of watching him milk his prostate with a toy purchased for just the occasion. His big, black lover had been over earlier to fuck him and make him suck. He still had semen on his breath when we spoke. Then I lovingly coaxed the jizz from his balls. Milking makes it dribble without shooting. He says he still can’t get it up and there’s nothing left inside his balls. I’m making him wait to orgasm for a while so I might have the pleasure of milking him dry once again very soon!

Until tomorrow, stroker boys… when the subject will be cuckolds, wittols and the bucks who make their dreams cum true…. I know, I know, I’m such a cocktease!

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
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Some men say cocktease like it’s a bad thing… but you know better, don’t you stroker boy? You know the girls who get what they want don’t spread their legs… well, at least not for you! Cockteasing is a misunderstood tool in the feminine arsenal. Most women even look upon it as a thing to avoid, not realizing the power they could wield if only they had enough control to say no, with a cute little giggle of course… Men love it when women make them wait for it. A prize to easily had isn’t a prize at all.

In days gone by, when virginity was prized, women who learned to tease with one hand and draw in the men with the other had a marked advantage at finding and keeping a man. The men who are drawn to the cocktease are the men who need a challenge. Any girl can give it up, but it takes talent and skill to tease a man, especially a big, strong alpha male, into submission. He knows better than to expect it, will walk through hell for a sniff of it and while aroused will promise the world to the girl who knows how to blueball him like he deserves.

So how do you feel about tease and denial? Do you enjoy the orgasm control a woman has when you put your cock into her dainty hands? Do you need to serve her to earn your release… and are you even more aroused when she whispers “Orgasm Denied!” than when she lets you squirt it? If so, I think we have lots to talk about…

For all you wankers dying for a tease and deny game… Visit Cocktease Bootcamp for the very best phone sex webtease on the web!

Empress Lauren
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 Public Humiliation [2:16m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

So my recent post on the subject of public humiliation seems to have struck a nerve. This past week I’ve dressed sexy little sissy sluts from head to toe and taken them out for a night on the town. I’ve combined my love of small cock humiliation with public humiliation by encouraging those clit dicks to risk exposure so others may share in my giggles and mockery. I’ve talked to several strokers calling from parked cars or their offices hoping like hell that no one pulls beside them or opens the office door… thrilled to the very core that someone just might see them in this embarassing position. I’ve even encouraged some nasty little cocksuckers with a penchant for forced bisexuality fantasies to take that next step and go the the local glory hole or bookstore for a mouthful of cock.

Public masturbators are risking their marriages, their jobs, their freedom even for the thrilling orgasm the fear of exposure brings. Such heady desires are hard to ignore, even harder to deny. For the less adventurous and those who don’t want to end up on an offender’s list, the key comes in balancing your risk with the level of exposure. For example, a lower risk activity can be done in a more public place. This can include buying panties, wearing them underneath straight clothes or exposing yourself in an acceptable venue like the gym with public showers. A higher risk activity should be kept in a place that while public carries a lesser risk of discovery.

For those of you in need of public humiliation phone sex, give me a call. I’m so loving exploring these fantasies and realities. I’m looking forward to laughing my ass off at you while you risk public exposure for the chance at sweet release… it’ll make the little tease and deny game I have in mind for you that much sweeter… until tomorrow!

Empress Lauren
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 Ruined Orgasms Redux [3:05m]: Play Now | Play in Popup | Download

Hi phone sex strokers! I’ve been busy today, talking, exploring and researching various sexual fetishes. The broad range of sexuality both excites me and astounds me as people find new thrills, new ways to get off every day. Still, I’m excited at continuing my exploration of the ruined orgasm phenomena. I do so like the idea of being a Stimulatrix, in total control of your enjoyment and satisfaction. If that excites you as well, call me and let’s play! In the meantime, you might want to check out Rob & Jill, a site catering to this most excellent fetish!

Here’s the continuation of my fem dom story from yesterday… Enjoy!

Ruined Orgasms, Conclusion

Now there’s all kinds of techniques I could use to stifle his seed. I could squeeze his prick really hard down at the base when I sense he’s reaching the point of no return. Or I could press my fingers into his perineum, right underneath his balls. Or I could thwack his cock, hitting it hard right before the splooge comes. Or I could even just let him go and watch him humping for the air with no hope of friction. I giggle a little when I imagine his reaction. He doesn’t even notice because he’s so enraptured by the rhythmic stroking of my fingers. Maybe I’ll just push my thumb over the tip refusing to let any of his silly sauce slide out. That would be fun watching not only his mental agony, but the real physical pain when he knows he’s being blue balled completely.

“Oh, does it feel good, slut?” I ask him and he grunts in reply. He can’t even redeem himself with simple gratitude, so far gone in his pre-orgasmic trance. I make up my mind then and there what I’ll do. He’s thrusting up with everything he has and I know the moment is at hand… to bad I’m not. Just before his cum erupts I pull my hand away leaving him thrusting into nothing, his ass clenching and his pathetic prick dribbling as I laugh uncontrollably at the crestfallen look on his face.

“Does it feel good now?” I ask, still snickering at his dilemma. He’s pulling at his bonds, crying out in frustration.

“Why?” he whines. “Why did you stop? It felt so good…”

“You need humility, boy.” I tell him. “You have no respect and expect far too much with too little gratitude. What I give, I may also take away.” I laugh again and leave him bound and broken. I walk away knowing I’ve taught this pathetic excuse for a slave slut a lesson in ruined orgasms.

Stay Tuned Tomorrow for a Special Cock Sucker Treat!

Empress Lauren
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