Archive for the “Sadism” Category

I’m quite a believer in contrasts, hence my fascination with pain and pleasure. Ask any painslut and they’ll tell you they’re one and the same. When the endorphins start flooding your system, pain makes the pleasure of your submission so very intense, more intense than a mere blowjob or vanilla roll in the hay. True, those activities activate the pleasure centers of your brain, but not to the degree even a little pain will add. Anyone who’s ever been the least bit involved in bdsm phone sex knows this. Sometimes the pain overwhelms your pleasure centers and leaves you panting and writhing with lust, more excited, more orgasmic than you’ve ever been… not from the pleasure, but from the sweet rush of pain that you feel all over.

Is it any wonder I just adore cbt phone sex? There’s something so very hot about controlling the pace of pain a boy feels under my cruel control. I love to taunt and tease while he clamps those clothespins on his nuts and nipples. I love the sweet way they beg when blood flow overwhelms their cock bondage and the ties become uncomfortably erotic and that man meat swells and bucks in anticipation for what’s coming next. It’s even better when I make him spread his legs wide and I trample his balls or kick them hard. Ballbusting is a hobby of mine, lol. Not only do I enjoy this special brand of pain, but the erotic humiliation it provides the male submissive. Out of control, out of options and loving every single second.

Another of my favorite fantasies involves castration. I have no clue why… maybe because as a farm girl I witnessed the annual ritual of gelding horses and castrating pigs. My father taught me how to use an elastrator when I was young and I assisted occasionally in emasculating the hogs or bulls. It was so very much fun. As I got older, I wondered often how it would work on a man. Cutting off the blood flow makes the testicles atrophy, so easy to slice after with little pain. Of course, cauterization often left those partially male animals squeal. These kinky niche fetishes excite me, the more extreme the better. How would it make you feel?

But anyway, enough to scare you boys, lol. Let’s face it, I’m a true sadistic mistress who enjoys male suffering in whatever form it takes. Does that excite you, repulse you or just make you crave my voice on the line wondering what I’d do to you to make you ache with that same pleasure pain. No apologies, that’s just me… and you know you love me, lol, in spite of or because of the sadism that drives me to become the most sadistic fem dom you’ve ever had the pleasure to submit to. Are you game? I know I am…

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

Some of you are under the false impression that I’m soft and sensual merely because I’m blond, sultry, sexy and polite. For those who’ve played with me, however, you understand my real love is rough trade. Give me implements to inflict pain and it makes me smile. Beg me to watch and direct your CBT phone sex session… and follow all my orders no matter how painful or degrading. Look up at me with pleading eyes while I contemplate how hard to bust your balls with my thigh high leather boots… you know, the wicked ones with six inch heels that beg to be licked by a submissive slave boy like you? These are just a few of my favorite things.

And another thing… when it comes to sissy boys? I prefer my boys eager for cock, whether it be my strap on or forced bi humiliation. Give me a sissy with smeared cocksucker red lipstick and mascara running down ruining “her” perfect makeover. Give me a slut who’s stretched her “pussy” to take a plug or cock easily. Give me a dirty panty fag gloryhole whore who kneels in sticky jism to suck all cummers. I’m not fond of sissy lesbos, though. If I want to get sensual with a girl, well, it’ll be a real girl, not some hairy pseudo-wannabe. In other words, I prefer my sissies useful and active in their sexual pursuits… not some dress up dollie who wants me to tell him how pretty he is… let’s face it, you’re not.

So what does that mean for us? Well, it’s simple really. I still enjoy all kinds of roleplays, all kinds of filthy fantasies from cuckold phone sex, hardcore domination, fetish exploration and of course, extreme humiliation including public, private and small cock humiliation. And of course I love forced bisexuality and using my strapon cock on a willing panty fag who begs his lovely mistress to fuck him hard in his sissy hole. But I’m not sensual, despite my soft, taunting voice, despite my knowing smile… all these things I cultivate to dig deep into your psyche and find the darkest place I can… and take you there… and make sure you damn well love it.

That’s who I am. That’s what I do. I’m the smiling bitch goddess who tempts and taunts you to sin… and never, ever lets you forget you begged me for it. Think of that when you’re skating on the edge of agony and ecstasy. Trust me, you’ll love me all the more for it.

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
1.99/minute with a 10 minute minimum
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

I’ve been feeling more dominant than usual this week. Translation: Many have suffered, few have came and even more have faced their forced bi fantasies head on. I’ve also laughed my cute little ass of at wankers, spankers, pindicks and cuckolds. All in all, I’ve quite enjoyed this week in phone sex as my sense of humor has put me at the top of my game. Face it, a dominatrix like me can’t stay all stern and serious all the time. I think my playfulness, my kittenish teasing and denial make me the perfect choice for those who want to delve into their submissive side without the fear of things getting too heavy. I have a knack for keeping the mood light while we explore your sexual boundaries. Of course I “serious” up as the situation warrants… I just enjoy getting to know my callers on a more personal level before I presume to order them about, lol.

I’ve talked to some of my favorite boys, boys who know their place, who understand my personality and enjoy the probing questions I ask. Laura was punished for her multitude of sins and is on an extended punishment each day this week. Not only that, I tricked her into doubling her spanking, lol. Such red cheeks and half the strokes weren’t even ordered! A boy in my cocksucker training program completed his task, taking a total of eighteen cocks down his throat since we last spoke about a week ago. I was so proud of his dick slurping prowess, I allowed him a much needed spooge. I spoke with my favorite interracial cuckold husband and we discussed his wife’s many black and multi-racial lovers. There are many more memorable calls I haven’t mentioned, but you boys are on my mind as well, never fear.

While discussing expensive lingerie with a sissy caller of mine last night, I broke out my old bookmarks and dug up the link for Agent Provocateur again. I know how much you sweet little sissy queers love the feel of such finely erotic apparel… and I do so adore their filmy bras and panties… and the garter belts are so modern and sexy… this ain’t your mama’s sexy lingerie… but wouldn’t you like it to be yours… and mine? There’s a wishlist option and I’ll be adding the link to mine soon. If nothing else for the sissies to browse and lust for the filmy, flirty, oh so sensual underthings they offer.

Anything you’d like to share with me this weekend? An erotic confession, a burning fantasy… and out of control lust for my mockery and laughter? I’ll be available each day (9/6 - 9/7) from 8am until midnight. I’ll most likely take a few breaks and may even be on earlier/later than the times listed… just want to give you boys a heads up so you can plan to speak with me… you know you want to.

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
1.99/minute with a 10 minute minimum
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

You lucky little strokers get a trifecta of fem dom phone sex assignments tonight from your lovely southern sadist. Yeah, I was saving them up for a full frontal assault on your libido. You’ve been getting soft, weak and satisfying yourself far too much without penalty or price. That’s about to change.

I have an enormous love of cock and ball torture as some of my regular victims, I mean callers, can attest. My lastest cbt phone sex assignment will leave you reeling as my pleasure truly is your pain. In fact, I’d love to help you through it if you call me and say you’re performing for me. You’ll be humiliated and ass fucked with your cock and balls sore and aching. Visit Domination Bootcamp to complete your task.

If your tastes don’t run to pain… how about a nice, slow cocktease? I have a great love of tease and denial. The little sounds you make when I drag you back from the edge excites me. There’s nothing more erotic than your disappointed relief when I tell you no. You understand that when the moment of relase comes, it will be so much the better for the waiting. You know how empty you feel when you’ve exploded. Weak and limp. Unmanned. Visit Cocktease Bootcamp for a slow stroking session that may or may not have a happy ending.

Or maybe, just maybe you need to be shamed, scolded, degraded and ass fucked? See, I know all you little fags in training lust for the moment you actually get to suck. This cocksucker training session will leave your writhing and craving the real thing even more than you already do. Visit Humiliation Bootcamp for a huge dose of scorn…

Empress Lauren, Your Femdom Humiliatrix
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

My new female domination assignment is available at Domination Bootcamp. I think you’ll find it painfully humiliating…. just the way I love my phone humiliation. I thrive on inflicting physical, mental and emotional scars on either your body or your psyche. The key is using the altered state you float into or “sub space” to create a connection. Why? To addict you to my sweet sadism, of course. All the endorphins you release while your drifting on your pre or post orgasmic (or no orgasmic, you know how much I adore orgasm denial!) state bind you to the feeling of shame and helplessness that allow you to let go and enjoy your submissive experience.

I love to use my strapon cock while my male submissive is feeling weak and willing. His eyes always enlarge when he sees the length and the girth of my huge plastic girl-cock. I love to slap it in my subbie’s face, make him suckle the head while I laugh down at him. Sometimes, if he’s a real fuck pig, I spit right in his face while he sucks it. When I’m satisfied the little bitch has earned it, I stop the cocksucker training and begin the slow process of opening up his black cherry so I can embed the dildo deep within him. I love the tight feel of his cheeks clenching while I force it all the way up his tight little hole.

Of course my dominant desires go much further… and some are even more gentle, less humiliating… but one thing never changes. I’m always a Mistress, always dominant and always in complete control of myself and my submissive slut, no matter what task I set him to. I’ll admit I love pain, humiliation and complete female domination… but I am wise enough to find your limits and push them just as far as you need them pushed.

What does that mean to a potential male submissive? That I’m flexible and not always harsh and demanding. A real dominant woman doesn’t have to be… but it’s fun when I go deep and find the uber bitch within me who demands nothing less than true obedience… she wants out… so who wants to play? Give me a call at 1-800-356-6169 and tell me what makes your cock drip…

Empress Lauren, CBT Mistress
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

Ooops! I’ve been creating such devious scenarios today my sadistic bitch meter has risen to fever pitch. I’m in the mood for some serious cock and ball torture. I’m talking more insidious than slapping, waxing or even spanking your little boner. I’m ready for some THROB! I ask for nothing more than lubricant and your cock for a nice, slow session… the catch, you ask? I want you to lube up your cock with something special. I think either powdered ginger mixed into olive oil or some Vick’s Vapor Rub. Now the ginger will do some very special things to the submissive male. The Vick’s though? That’s the tool of a purist. It’s going to burn like hell.

So you have to ask yourself, do you want the mysterious effects of ginger (no, you’ll have to try it!) or the more sadistic Vicks? I’m fine either way, each will suit my purposes. But per my own tastes, the ginger makes me smile. As many of you know, when inserted into your mangina ginger root will make you squirm and ache, throbbing with unthinking lust. You could probably cum spontaneously from it if you could just clench your butt muscles without the burn. Those of you who did my figging phone sex assignment will know that. So what will it do as a lubricant? Try it and find out… or better yet, give me a call at 1-800-356-6169 and we’ll torture your lucky cock and balls together.

Today has been full of delicious small cock humiliation, cuckolding and full on hardcore fem dom scenarios. I guess I have some serious fetish role play on my mind. I do so love to toy with little sluts who’s libido and imagination take him to the same dark, sultry places I look toward. It’s so much fun when the slut in question knows that together we can build the perfect phone sex roleplay that will bring him to his knees, weak and wanting. What happens then? Use YOUR imagination, lol.

Until Later.

Empress Lauren, Your Fem Dom Mistress
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

The lovely Mistress Vivian had a great idea for multi Mistress blog posts. For this week’s posting, she chose our favorite phone sex roleplay scenarios. Though I have several, the general tone of a Villainess Fantasy intrigues me. I love it when a caller asks me NOT to restrain myself and fully develop my wicked Femme Fatale side. A recent caller wished for me to indulge in a capture and bdsm fantasy, complete with gloating villainy. Being both deviant and depraved, I was happy to oblige.

Mistress dressed herself in black leather from head to toe, then followed you to the bar. You were looking over your shoulder, suspecting someone had been stalking you for weeks. You look relieved when you join the crowd at the bar. After all, who’s going to get you there? You’re perfectly safe… at least until Mistress arrives. You can’t take your eyes off her, fascinated by the sense of “other” about her. Your fem dom fetish wet dreams are filled with leather clad beauties just like her. You’ve been drawing them for years and wanking to your creations. She’s tall, lithe, moves like a jungle cat in her thigh high black leather boots you find yourself so willing to worship… You’re suprised when she zeroes directly in on you at the bar. Women like Mistress don’t notice you… not until tonight. And something about her seems sooo familiar.

She smells of danger and sex arousing you instantly, though you haven’t spoke, haven’t touched. You try to speak, but her finger rises to your lips… shhhh… don’t talk. You know who I am, you made me. You drew me and through your repeated offerings of semen, you made me real. I’ve been watching you, wanting you. I know what you need…. of course she does… You take another drink, enraptured by Mistress. Your mind flows to all the depraved things your masturbated to while you were creating her and you wonder if she knows. You look to Her eyes as you sip your drink and realize yes, yes she does. Then you start feeling funny, your head spinning and she’s smiling. Don’t worry, I’ll take care of you. Mistress knows just what you need, slave boy.

You awaken to find her standing over you, gloating. She’s smiling and you sense the danger in it. You try to move, but find you’re not only strapped down, but naked and rather than fearing it, you revel in it. I knew you’d like it, she says, just like in your fantasy. All tied up and at my mercy…. what should I start with? Maybe I should torture you a bit? But what first? I know you love it when I tease your nipples, when I pinch them gently at first, then tweak them hard and clamp them. Doesn’t that feel nice, slave boy? Good. Now your cock… I know how much you adore cock and ball torture and you’re rock hard already. I hope you don’t think you’ll be getting relief tonight, slave boy…

More tomorrow, lol….

Empress Lauren, Fem Dom Mistress
1-800-356-6169
1.99/minute with a 10 minute minimum
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

My best male friend called me last night in tears. I knew immediately why. I’d been telling him for months his hot wife, twenty years younger than him, had a back door man feeding the poor man sloppy seconds for months now. How did I come upon this tidbit of information? The boy (and I use the term loosely, he’s 28) is a friend of both my boyfriend and I. Now while my superior alpha male couldn’t be direct, he could (according to guy code) tell me, his mate. When he found out my man had told me, he began quizzing me on a woman’s point of view. I hedged, not wanting to hurt his feelings… Yes, my friend is hetro, but no, he’s not well endowed. I dated him in high school and knew that sad fact first hand. Of course he’d asked me and our female friends if size mattered (back then) and we lied and said no. Why? He’s our friend, our good friend and we didn’t want to hurt his feelings.

I mean his prick isn’t dinky, it’s merely average. Compared to the shriveled peanuts you loser boys show me he’s positively well hung. But enough to satisfy a woman? Not so much. That’s the thing. He’s average in most every way. Average height, weight, eyes, face, blah, blah, blah… why would his cock be any different. And I do feel sorry for him, he’s a hell of a nice guy, deserved better than what he got… but still… his wife DID deserve something more than mediocre. I completely understand her frustration. He’d confided in me their sex life has pretty much sucked for the past year. I, of course, suggested toys.

This created yet another problem. His wife became far too enamoured of the huge black dildo they’d purchased together. They’d promised to use it together, but more and more often he’d walked in to find her with that thick black plastic meat deep inside her. So all this leads up to the discovery of her cuckoldry. Her back door man was none other than a massive black stallion that put her twelve inch toy to shame. Not only was my friend cheated upon, he’d brought it upon himself.

Though I love my friend dearly, what the hell did he expect? He’d spent many drunken nights over the years whining about his size. I did what any friend would, I comforted him, knowing not to take him home for a pity fuck and I told him why one night when he asked. SPH is a huge handicap for a man, no matter what the rest of the world says. He seemed heartbroken and resigned until he met “size doesn’t matter” Amy, lol. What a liar! But what could I say to him, he was sure of her honesty, but really! Did he think his wife would be content with a Vienna sausage once she’d sampled the kielbasa? I allowed him the luxury of crying on my shoulder and made all the right “that bitch” noises, but truthfully… I can’t blame her. A real woman needs a real man and what better man than a big, black buck to make an interracial cuckold of her hubby?

I told him to be glad she didn’t make him her fluffer boy. Of course I had to explain it to him… and though he acted grossed out, I swear I saw a slutty gleam in his eye, like forced bisexuality wouldn’t be such a horrible thing. I just wonder if they won’t work things out and he’ll serve them with his mouth. I mean snowballs and creampies are horrible things to waste. Maybe I should suggest he start eating his own spunk in preparation for his forced bi humiliation scene, lol. Perhaps I should even enter him into my cocksucker training program!

Any thoughts on interracial cuckolding tonight? Let’s face it… it got me more than a little excited as he told me the story… I’m so going to hell!

Empress Lauren, Fem Dom Blogger
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

As many of you know, this weekend was my birthday. My friends and I dolled up and hit the town and painted it several very vivid shades of red, lol. At one bar, this sleazy fucker wouldn’t leave us alone. He kept telling us he could pleasure us all with his enormous cock. We cock mocked him and drove him so nuts, he went to the parking lot with us to show off his massive tool. What Mr. Man claimed was the largest cock ever turned out to be four limp inches that shrank even further as he heard four hot chicks laughing their asses off at it’s true pathetic nature. I told him if someone had told him his dinky dick was huge they must have been a compulsive liar. We left him standing there holding Mr. Winky sad and in tears at our small penis humiliation.

So we went to another bar to party for a while. It always amuses me when men try to separate pretty party girls. These wankers know they don’t have a chance with all of us, so they try to cordon us off and seduce us away from our girlfriends. As if. While these wankers are deranged, they are also very profitable. Not one drink was purchased by any of us all night long. A little bit of cockteasing and it’s free drinks all around. We were all dancing together and the men clustered around hoping for a flash of leg or a wardrobe malfunction. We teased and denied each and every one of them.

Suzie has a penchant for big, black cock and cuckolding poor little dicked white boys. So all night long she was flirting and dancing with those mocha gods. Trust me, it was driving all the poor little white boys crazy. So I started fucking with them. I’d walk up behind a man watching her bump and grind with her dark boy. I whispered in his ear… “You’d love to watch him fuck her, wouldn’t you?”. His yes both startled him and aroused me… he looked at me like I was a psychic or something. “How did you know that?” I told him I knew little pussy boys like him knew they were inferior and needed proof. What better way to prove it than to be compared to that big, black cock and found wanting. He was both sad and excited as he faced the truth and I left the club knowing my work there was done. Cuckold slut wannabes always crack me up.

So how was your weekend, wanker boy?

Empress Lauren, Your Fem Dom Mistress
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com