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I think I’ve become jaded. I’ve been a phone sex dominatrix for several years and I always seem to forget that not every single caller understands what they want… or even what they need. Then someone new to the scene changes all that, someone who’s not only a BDSM virgin, but a sexual one as well. Now he’s legal, of course, and has quite unique ways of mastrubating, but as far as actually going all the way? He’s pure, almost an innocent. That charmed me as did his answers when I quizzed him as to why. He told me he thought he owed it to himself and his potential partner to know himself well enough he could concentrate on her pleasure. How sweetly submissive, though even now I don’t think he’d call it that.

We’ve spent time exploring scenes and toys that excite him. He’s not much into pain, aside from a mild type of sensation play. He does enjoy cock and ball torture though. We spent one night binding his cock and balls and slowly teasing them with a soft headed toothbrush. I made him trace every throbbing vein until he was begging to cum, begging to release. I so enjoy cockteasing him a bit, explaining that not every orgasm was about his own. Sometimes he’d have to wait until she “got hers” so to speak. I told him that by learning control now, he’d become a better lover once he deemed himself worthy of the real thing.

Then he said some thing hat shocked me. He asked if I thought he would enjoy ass play. Of course, I told him, we could try. Having no toys we improvised by using his fingers. I don’t think he had any idea he would enjoy anal penetration so much. Before only a few thrusts, his cock began dripping and an enormous orgasm ensued. Since then, we’ve been searching for the perfect buttplug to break him in and milk his prostate thoroughly… any suggestions?

Oh, and check out my rather severe new Mistress Always Wins audio I posted tonight in our Member’s Area (Banner below… hint, hint… click and join for the best in Fem Dom Audios). In my new audio I describe one subbie’s punishment for daring to splooge upon me. Trust me… he lives to regret it… and so would you, little man!

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

This week has been exciting for me. Not only have I partied with old, dear friends…. I’ve taken some rather awesome calls that strike me where I like it most, my funny bone. Now the truth is, while I’m aroused sometimes by my calls, for the most part they appeal to my very sick and twisted sense of sexual humor. Let me detail the most memorable of the phone sex humiliation calls from the past few days.

There was poor S who wanted someone “mean”. My style of mean doesn’t involve yelling and screaming, it’s more taunting and teasing, usually in a soft & sarcastic giggly tone that has been known to make grown men cry. S was one such subject. I tortured him sweetly, my tone contrasting nicely with the pain I encouraged him to inflict on his miniature member. Cock and ball torture is always so exciting, listening to the moans of pain and pleasure a willing submissive subjects himself to at my behest. All the while I’m torturing his aching blueballs (he hadn’t came in two weeks), I’m assuring him he’ll get an orgasm. He spends his session begging, worshiping and aching to cum. True to my word, I encouraged him to stroke and stroke hard, just let me know when he’s reached the point of no return. He was a panting mess when he got there and begged to splooge. So I let him… with one condition. I ruined his orgasm for him by forcing to thumb it so all the cum drained back inside. Needless to say he was satisfied… but he wasn’t, lol. Oh the contradictions of female domination!

Then there was an awesome small cock humiliation roleplay. The caller is winning big at the casino, that is until my boyfriend and I show up. I snuggle up to the caller, feel him up a little and whisper in his ear how much smaller his junk is than my hung stud of a lover. It instantly ruins his concentration until he loses his ass. I give him a chance to recoup his losses if he’ll come back to our room with us… and offer him back his lost cash if I can make a eunuch of him. Of course he watches my stud fuck me well, cleans me up and is offered one last orgasm before I take out the elastrator. I’m sure you can figure out how that one ended, lol!

Then sweet W of the monotone voice calls. I do so enjoy speaking with him. While I think some callers resent the power women hold over them, Warren seems genuinely enamoured of the fairer sex… so much so he understands instinctively he’s beneath us. He’s not a small man, not a loser… only a stroker because he knows what most men only suspect, he doesn’t deserve pussy. He’s not worthy and chronic masturbation is his lot in life. Kudos to Warren for being the good, respectful boy he is. He’s always a pleasure.

Then today, I get the treat of treats. One of my regulars, G, has been dying to have his prostate milked. After showing me pics of his first interracial cocksucking experience, I had the pleasure of watching him milk his prostate with a toy purchased for just the occasion. His big, black lover had been over earlier to fuck him and make him suck. He still had semen on his breath when we spoke. Then I lovingly coaxed the jizz from his balls. Milking makes it dribble without shooting. He says he still can’t get it up and there’s nothing left inside his balls. I’m making him wait to orgasm for a while so I might have the pleasure of milking him dry once again very soon!

Until tomorrow, stroker boys… when the subject will be cuckolds, wittols and the bucks who make their dreams cum true…. I know, I know, I’m such a cocktease!

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

So what makes a man go into Central Park, after closing no less… to meet another man an engage in some kinky sex games? Ask Richard Quest, an extremely popular anchor for CNN. And don’t think it was just a mistake, lol. He had a rope around his neck that led down to his uhmm, package, lol… and a toy up his ass! While they were carting him away he tells them he has methamphetamine in his pocket! Luckily for Mr. Quest, if he undergoes six months of counseling the charges will be dropped…. just like his pants were about to! I’ve said that public humiliation must be all the rage. But seriously, wouldn’t it have made more sense to just call out for some phone sex instead? While I don’t think he was consciously seeking it, you have to know that exposure is a possibility when engaging in such high risk activities.

I’m sure that’s part of the thrill. Why else put yourself in that position? Of all the possible places to enjoy a kinky intimate encounter, I would think that the park would be the last place a sane person would chose. Glory hole, bookstore, gay club, hell with his money… a five star hotel would have provided privacy. But maybe that’s what he wanted, the down and dirty risk that made the encounter much more exciting. I have this theory about public humiliation. The craving starts small and the initial thrills are often low risk, but high exposure. It builds like a tolerance for a drug until it takes something outrageous, over the top to satisfy the urges that have taken over logic.

By that same token, I had an amusing call today with a flasher. For some reason, when I hear flasher I think of some old perv in a trench coat and knee socks opening up the coat and exposing their wrinkled peanut and running like hell. Not so with this wanker I’ll call C. He calls to tell me he needs punishment… he did something horrible. I enjoy encouraging perverts to confess all their sins to me. It’s quite fun to draw out each detail slowly in a slow, seductive and non-judgemental voice. It makes it even more devastatingly arousing to the confessor as he’s not expecting the laugh and the harsh disdain he hears in my voice. It made WC pant with shameful pleasure. He confided to me the girls rather than runny away came over to investigate his dinky dick and indulge in a bit of small cock humiliation. They made him jerk for them and when he made a mess on one of their shoes, he was made to kneel and lick it clean.

I punished C for his shortcomings, which were many.. He’d never had sex before, though he’d come close before cumming in his pants before they even came down. His lot in life has been the mocking laughter of the fairer sex and deep down, he understands what a useless waste of cock flesh he is. I made him apply 10 clothes pins to his body. Eight went on his scrotum, you all know how much I adore CBT! The other two were cruelly attached to his nipples. Before he was allowed release, he pulled them off sharply without opening them… that was after the ass beating he was administered as well. Did I tell you how much I love me calling? I hate to call it a job, it’s too much fun and too suited to my deviant personality that drives me to torture, abuse, manipulate and humiliate the lower sex, males! Oh what fun you are to abuse!

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

Hi there all you chronic masturbators! I’ve been browsing the web this weekend and I’ve found such deliciously evil goodies for all you wanker boys. See, I was seeking out just the right buttplug for a special subbie of mine who’s exploring all his possibilities. I understand some of you are inexperienced, you’re sampling from here and there to find out what you’re really into. It’s a long journey of experimentation, but you’ll find along the way the destination matters less than the experiences you have along the way. I’ve found some very interesting toys at Extreme Restraints. Here’s a few of my favorites for the types of fetishes I enjoy.

Strap On Sex- Finding the perfect strap on cock that’s both comfortable and easily maneuverable is a chore in itself. To find one that gives equal pleasure to the fucker as it does to the fuckee is almost impossible. The Feeldoe (which I’ve mentioned before!) takes care of all that. I can’t imagine anything better than this treasure when pegging a suitably submissive slut!

Anal Training- What better way to break in you forced bisexuals than a set of buttplugs that really “opens up” those sweet little cunts of yours? The Rectal Dialator Kit stretches your cute little hole while it stretches your limits. Just look at those black, imposing monsters, each one a little bigger. When the smaller ones are used, the others just sit there taunting you. You know the small one is the first step. With each session you’ll get fuller and more excited and more willing to take what you know you want… a juicy fat cock!

That’s all for tonight, I’ll be posting again tomorrow with more cool toys for the sexually adventurous submissive. I think I’ll focus on pain then, toys for CBT and nipple torture. Yummy!

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

Some men say cocktease like it’s a bad thing… but you know better, don’t you stroker boy? You know the girls who get what they want don’t spread their legs… well, at least not for you! Cockteasing is a misunderstood tool in the feminine arsenal. Most women even look upon it as a thing to avoid, not realizing the power they could wield if only they had enough control to say no, with a cute little giggle of course… Men love it when women make them wait for it. A prize to easily had isn’t a prize at all.

In days gone by, when virginity was prized, women who learned to tease with one hand and draw in the men with the other had a marked advantage at finding and keeping a man. The men who are drawn to the cocktease are the men who need a challenge. Any girl can give it up, but it takes talent and skill to tease a man, especially a big, strong alpha male, into submission. He knows better than to expect it, will walk through hell for a sniff of it and while aroused will promise the world to the girl who knows how to blueball him like he deserves.

So how do you feel about tease and denial? Do you enjoy the orgasm control a woman has when you put your cock into her dainty hands? Do you need to serve her to earn your release… and are you even more aroused when she whispers “Orgasm Denied!” than when she lets you squirt it? If so, I think we have lots to talk about…

For all you wankers dying for a tease and deny game… Visit Cocktease Bootcamp for the very best phone sex webtease on the web!

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

Hey there stroker boys! This is just a quick post. It’s April in Georgia and all the flowers are blooming. Not only that, it’s grilling season! I was raised in a rural area and both my grandparents had dairy farms. Nothing says summer better than a thick, juicy steak on the grill. Though I’m enlightened soul, I just can break my carnivorous habits, lol. I know I should go vegan, but I’m not cut out for the lifestyle. Anyway, I just thought I would make a mention of a new strap on audio I posted to our phone sex membership site, Mistress Always Wins. I’ve provided a link at the bottom of the post for all you wankers who haven’t joined yet… DO! If just to hear my sexy voice… I’ll be updating all the posts with podcasts this weekend, I’ve been having audio problems on my laptop. Maybe I need a new one, lol?

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com

 

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Sometimes real life is so much stranger than simple fiction. At least in fiction things have to make sense. Real life apparently doesn’t follow suit. Stories of public masturbation have surged, though no immediate connection to phone sex has emerged. The first was a poor woman who had been cum upon by a splooge monkey on American Airlines. She woke up with his icky sticky in her hair and is suing them, can’t say I blame her, lol. Then there was a politician in San Francisco busted for pissing in a cup and jerking off in a public restroom. I wonder what creative Fem Dom Mistress told him to do that? And college athletes wanking in the library, some guy jerking to jogging women… it makes me think all you wankers came out of the closet in masse! And how do you dirty five knuckle shufflers feel about choking the chicken where the world can see? I’ve noticed that more and more of you little wankers have been turned on by public humiliation much more lately… maybe it’s something in the water?

Empress Lauren
1-800-356-6169
empress.lauren@yahoo.com